Around a month ago, I decided to give up on news. Much of my day was wasted consuming news. During the working day, I would follow @BBCBreaking on Twitter and constantly click on my BBC News browser bookmark.
I would pride myself on being bang up to date on major events occurring in the world – often before others around me knew anything of them.
After work I would often make a point of turning over to the news at 18:00 (when I typically eat my dinner). Sometimes even the 22:00 news too – habits (I am quite sure) that have been subconsciously passed on from both my parents and grandparents.
But Mrs FmC has always been the complete opposite. She avoids the news and has no interest in watching it. I can now understand why.
Let’s face it – there is rarely any good news. Most of it is negative and depressing. From Brexit scaremongering to terrorist related atrocities, the typical news is doing us no favours.
The other thing I realised is that none of this news is relevant to me as an individual. I am not missing out as a result of not knowing. I feel relieved.
I did worry at first of appearing ignorant to others due to this change in habit. But then I remembered from Brené Brown’s excellent book Braving the Wilderness (which I just finished) that it’s OK to stand alone. I am an individual and proud of who I am.
So although I am still subject to news bulletins on the radio and various other sources – I am very happy with my choice to cut down on exposure to news. It has definitely made me feel happier.
So today is Black Friday. As if you didn’t already know! We have been bombarded with Black Friday adverts for what feels like weeks already.
We need to talk, Black Friday.
I’m not exactly sure how to say this …
But this year I refuse to take part.
In previous years I have scoured the internet for much of the day intent on finding the ultimate bargain. I bought things that I thought I needed as well as things I definitely didn’t need. It gave me satisfaction which was short lived. That in itself is a clue to it being unnecessary.
No means no—OK, Black Friday? No means no.
I will not be manipulated to buy things I don’t really want or need.
But I have pretty much everything I need in life and am determined to be mindful with any new purchases. I am starting to declutter superfluous belongings in my home – and one of the obvious prerequisites has got to be stopping new things entering through the front door in the first place!
I also think that the majority of Black Friday deals are a scam. It is rare that you find exactly what you were looking for (i.e. something you had pre-planned to purchase, but decided to wait in case of discount opportunity). For those things that you do need (or purchase regularly) I find patience and using services such as camelcamelcamel are far more effective for buying at the lowest price possible.
Quotes from No, means no, Black Friday. No means no. by Lindsey Burgess.
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I have spent a lot of time over the years consuming and acting upon other people’s content. Especially the smaller blogs, where individuals tell their stories and pour out their souls – sharing golden nuggets of information for the benefit of others.
Although I never want to stop learning from others, I want to give something back. We are all individuals, after all, and every single one of us has something of value we can share with the community.
That’s what I love about the Internet – it connects like minded people together. I want to join the growing number of individuals blogging about their journey towards financial independence. That’s exactly what motivates me at the moment, and the reason I am starting this blog.
As well as wanting to share my own ideas and experiences, I want to feel part of a community. I want to get to know others blogging in this space. I want to contribute to their efforts. I would like to make new friends.
So please stay tuned and have a little patience. I am new to blogging and have a lot to learn. I need encouragement and guidance and will take it wherever I can!
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